Ever After

In reference to the Grouch & Eligh song. One of the best Living legends songs of all time. Sooo, how should one feel if a sibling of theirs, a close sibling of theirs, was getting married to a person that no one frm the fam had met? This sounds like a subplot of movies...but, it's something that my family in law is going through. One of my brother-in laws, who is pretty much my brother (all there off them are the best brothers one can have)..and is in the ARMY, has found himself a girl that he wants to marry. Granted he is only 21...and this is his first year in the ARMY...but according to him, she is the one. Anyway, besides the fact that not a single member of his family has met her...the wedding is next weekend and only the bride's family will be present. The wedding is in washington state, and his fam is in South texas...there's a language barrier because his parents only speak spanish, and hers only english..yeah...so my in laws were not comfortable at all being somewhere, where they just werent going to understand what was going on. And now, one of the brothers is disowning him for not waiting longer to get married. This brother that is disowning is currently deployed in Afhganistan...ahh..the complications of family life. But what can you do.